We are what we tell ourselves..Which in turn is what we will believe.
This past week end, I received some brutal feedback. It was so honest and to my exact failings that I spent most of the week-end going through all the typical defence mechanisms in my arsenal. The problem with my arsenal, up until now, been entirely lacking in substance and made an arse out of me and those dearest to me. It was behaviours and characteristics that resulted in the feedback, which was cathartically honest and cut through the heart to the bone. I had to throw out all my assumptions on my part. The fact that I am always kind and caring. The feedback was on point and truthful and after sitting on this, reading, writing and not sleeping, I am writing this piece to speak some more of MY authentic truth. I accept FULL Responsibility for my actions. I will be better and hope my giving of best is able to win who is best in my life.
6 min readOct 17, 2022
